CounselingChristians

Q: Im dating a IBF man. What concerns are there that I meed to consider, to determine if I shouldnt marry him.  A: I recommend Cautions on IFB Church and its members.  Does his church [and himself] strongly "criticize" or do they "embrace" Gothard’s teachings? If they reject his teachings, that's better. If they embrace it...  run! Thats still nor a simple cut and dry situation though, cuz many IFB churches embrace it, and IFB has concerning cult like issues.  The problems with IFB... well... to understand we have to look at a few things, to help bring counsel, guidance & clarity to the issue, in your sitiation. Please go through and understsnd these things well, and the resources below too.  And after, please pray about it well, seeking God's guidance before you make a decision. A form of love towards someone doesnt mean theyre the right person for you. God may have had them in your life temporarily to lead you back or to Christianity. Not to tie you to...

Q: Suffering for me has made me a worse person, I hate to say. I am more bitter, envious, angry and fragile. Fighting my hardening heart is my number one challenge, especially when my life seems to get worse on almost a daily basis (this has been going on for 30 years!) This feels like punishment, I feel hopeless.  I came to Faith in 1978, & never thought could be the cynical Christian I am today. It is sad. Only the Lord can change my heart, I know He is a miracle worker, and I am open to that, but my suffering is more than I can bear.  A: God has helped you get this far. Keep holding on. Idk if you've sought biblical counseling to help you through these things, but highly recommend it. You can find that personal help here . Along with that, in a self help, growth pursuit, I'd like to point you towards understanding God better, by His attributes and purpose for Mankind, and His will being accomplished. When were focused on Him (and trusting Him & His sovereignty) and...