CounselingChristians

Q: I’m 21 and my dad treats me like I’m 12 still. I live at home and I’m not allowed to do some of the things that I want to. If I go to a party my dad always picks me up early cos he wants to go to bed. He still makes me sit in the back of the car which my friends laugh at. I pray God can help. Pray for me.  A: Are you complaining about his loving care? God doesnt want us to complain, as it is sin. And though disrespecting your dad and you by ungodly teasing, who cares about those friends. Tbvh most childhood, high school and even college friends fade away from your life. In 2 to 3 years you'll be elsewhere making other friends at church.  He is trying to guide you to live mature and responsible, also to keep you safe. And if it was my home, as a Christian parent I wouldn't let you participate in pagan parties. That's not the lifestyle of Christian holy behavior. Finding godly friends is important. Bad company corrupts good morals, and this nation is full of pagans. I als...

I have some questions and I need some help. I gave birth 2 weeks ago today. The father isn’t in the picture and the entire pregnancy was traumatic (almost had an abortion too). The birth was also traumatic because I wasn’t allowed to leave hospital 2 weeks after, and now am in a foster placement for 12 weeks because of my mental health, which I don’t think I need as feels to be spiritual warfare. What I’m now concerned about is the baby; the biological father destroyed my life. I was so content before I met him, and the closest with God I’ve ever been, buy my life has been nothing but pain since. He completely took my off the path I was on. I guess this was partly my choice, but he made me believe he was something he totally wasn’t. Now I have his baby, im on my own, and im depressed more than ever before becsuse I just want to go home. I was just too naive at the time and thought God had sent him because I had been asking for a husband for so many years… I was wrong and should of list...