Why folk online encourage you to stay with an abuser?
Q: I’ve noticed online, that a lot of women encouraging women to stay in abusive or toxic relationships . Encouraging to pray for their spouse to change. I’m still learning in my walk with God. But when I look at what God’s word says about love - I always believe God would want the best for his daughters . Why should we settle and wait for someone to change ? I also do believe in God’s grace and showing grace toward others. I’ve been confused because I’m currently in a situation where I’m engaged but I experienced a few situations of physical and verbal abuse, and decided I want to end the relationship. But then I’ve being told by some people to pray for him for him to change or that maybe I’m meant to save him. But then I think why would God want me to put up with anger and aggression. I had expressed multiple times how it was making me feel but he never changed and once I finally decided to end things for good, he says he will change and do better. I’m already emotionally detached an...