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Relationship issues with my S/O help. 💔

Q: We've been together for a year, but we argue and there's problems. I want things to be how they were in the beginning. What to do?? A: Well first of all we need to look at what Scripture says about relationships. There were no couple relationships outside of marriage. In Bible times pursuing someone meant first your s/o was vetted to be a mature believer, and then engagement meant you were to be married, but not actually married. It was as legal as marriage and a covenant promise, not completed or finalized till you wed. No man would enter into a agreement or pursue considewe'd. marraige until he could provide for a family and that included having a home to live in. The betrothed man would spend that engaged year preparing the final things to be in place to begin a married life and have a family. The bride would live at home after engagement, and remain pure. They were never alone together. She waited until he called for her and they married. When he called her it was fo...

How to counsel people down about life situations

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Q: I don't understand people. The sad situation is her giving her kid up and giving up herself " because she's so tired" of prayers not working her way, and doesn't have faith now.  I don't know what she wants us to do? Besides she has to help herself before anyone helps her, and she's giving up on God and her faith. How can we help? She wrote:  A: The truth is we live in a fallen world. The unsaved have it worse as they dont have God's special care over their lives. Earth is likecthe only taste of Heaven theyll get but believers earth's the only Hell we will taste. Eternity is our best life, not here.  Many come for wrong reasons and embrace a false gospel; they think becoming Christian makes your life all rosey.. .nothing is further from the truth.  Far too many think God is a genie to pray to and get what they want... and that's blasphemous. We are to align and conform to His Will. Not ours.  Believers have God as our Soverign wh...