CounselingChristians

Q: Can you please advise for my situation.  I tore ligaments in my foot I am in a boot and using crutches. I babysit all day yesterday come home to do 2 loads of laundry, I kept on getting up to reset the washer because we have to do that with the washer. Struggling to carrying the clothes to put them away (we have a 1 story level). I was getting really frustrated because my husband was texting me saying I was "ignoring him", so I told him "I was busy doing and struggling and you are just lying on the couch don’t even bother to help and I know you work all day, but I work nonstop". So yes I am mad, I was having a rough day I told him everything was going wrong. Then he left to go somewhere I told him "if you wanted to me to pay attention and spend time with you shouldn’t left". I am trying so hard to communicate with him, and of course I have been sticking up for myself that I am not going to put up with it. He has mental issues like severe depression and...

Q: I’m 21 and my dad treats me like I’m 12 still. I live at home and I’m not allowed to do some of the things that I want to. If I go to a party my dad always picks me up early cos he wants to go to bed. He still makes me sit in the back of the car which my friends laugh at. I pray God can help. Pray for me.  A: Are you complaining about his loving care? God doesnt want us to complain, as it is sin. And though disrespecting your dad and you by ungodly teasing, who cares about those friends. Tbvh most childhood, high school and even college friends fade away from your life. In 2 to 3 years you'll be elsewhere making other friends at church.  He is trying to guide you to live mature and responsible, also to keep you safe. And if it was my home, as a Christian parent I wouldn't let you participate in pagan parties. That's not the lifestyle of Christian holy behavior. Finding godly friends is important. Bad company corrupts good morals, and this nation is full of pagans. I als...