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Spousal fights, criticism, submitting, unequally yoked

Q: How do you handle mean comments or criticism from a spouse? I don't want to be sensitive or overly emotional. But I just can't help but feel like I'm not enough, like I'm such a failure. He changed so much after we married. He's not the nicest person. And he criticizes everything I do. I never hear a compliment. He never tries to make me feel good about my self. Everything is always my fault. If I tell him I have a headache, it's my fault. If the kids get sick it's my fault. If he gets sick it's my fault. He makes me feel like I'm a child and not his wife. I constantly feel like I'm the stupidest person on the planet. I'm just tired of feeling this way. It's been almost 12 years. I wonder sometimes why God put me on this planet if I'm such a failure of a person. A: Are you unequally yoked or is he s believer? Is there validity in his criticisms that God may be bringing to your attention to help you mature in the faith, conquer sin...