Christmas in car
Q: I lashed out on my parents ( Mom and Stepdad ) and have no regrets. They are ruining family traditions this holiday season and keep hurting me emotionally. They want to make a 8 hour round trip on Christmas to see some family for 2 maybe 3-4 hours and I pretty much lashed out on them saying how its not even good for holiday or Christmas to spend the whole day in a car, and not even be abel to celebrate the true meaning behind Christmas. Yes I want to see my grandparents and older siblings (whom are adults) but feels useless to spend the whole day in a car. Am I in the wrong much or is my point valid? ( not to mention im a child of divorced parents who still fight over holiday visitation and just make me not wanna celebrate anything anymore ). A: Yes you were wrong. First step is to try to tell them both how you feel. Esp about the in-fighting. Tell them they need to create a set holiday plan so it is the same every year and they need to ensure their side of the family ne...