I don't want a divorce, but he sex now & after he divorces me.
Q: Im so confused about my life. Husband wants a divorce, I don't. We've been through alot. Been together 4 years , married for 2. He doesnt feel things will get better or I won't change into who he needs. (I found God during the hardships of our marriage) no infidelity, just bad fights and arguments. We are staying in 2 separate rooms at the house. But he still wants to be intimate and have sex , sleep together at night some times, etc. I let us to because I guess it makes things feel "normal" again so to speak and hope that he wants me. I figured we are still married so isnt it an okay kinda thing. He still tells me (having sex still, doesn't change his mind) we are getting a divorce. He's gonna file paperwork next week, and when kids are out of school he said we need to separate. But will also make comments saying he doesn't want me to find someone else , we can hook up , etc after we separate.... he doesnt say I'm not allowed to find som...