CounselingChristians

Q: My bf and I have had abortions. I am worried...  Can I be forgiven?  It really concerns me. 🙁🥺 A: There's a few areas to address here. It's all said in love and with intention to help you. ❤️ Regarding Abortion: You choose to kill unborn babies with selfish motivation instead of going the adoptive route. There's troubling matters here to work through, and will answer your most pressing question too. I would say it isn't an issue of if God would forgive you if your professing to be saved, but are you actually saved. Paul the murderer was saved and then stopped sinning such grievous sins. Believers mess up but it seems murder wouldn't be godly behavior. Contemplate this matter a bit, Scripture says: Romans 1:29 - "They were filled with all manner of unrighteousness, evil, covetousness, malice. They are full of envy, murder, strife, deceit, maliciousness. They are gossips." Revelation 21:8 - "But as for the cowardly, the faithless, the detesta...

Q: I need advice. I am pregnant and want to have an abortion, but my boyfriend said that if I abort he will dump me. He is willing to take care of and provide for us. I am just afraid because I am not working and have uncertianty. I love him and I don't wanna lose him, but what should I do?? A: As a Christian we value all human life and cannot take a life God has created (or is creating). I hope this resource will help you. Note: crisis pregnancy centers who associate with Christian churches near you can help with baby expenses for up to 2 years. Contaxlct the nearby bible churches for those recommendations, and even your own. God provides and takes care of his children. Even if you sinned by fornicating, he wont abandon you.  I will caution you not to marry him if he is not saved. God commands us to not join with those who are in sin and as Satan's children. Bf can still provide and help you, but seek single living help from your church leaders for guidance and support so ...