CounselingChristians

Q: How can I become a truly happy person? I’m so negative and just aggravated 24/7 and literally don’t know why. Sometimes i can’t make my self stop an think about how I’m acting. It’s going to cost me my marriage. I am also pregnant and stopped taking anxiety medication.  A: Many times people rush to point out the physical and mental to help you, but the Spiritual is where most of our battles are, sin is always the stinky culprit in whole or in part. We need to wear the Armour of God, and actively grow in our faith. Women also have to conquer emotional issues as a self control area to master.  Do a spiritual examination. Are you actively purposely growing in the Fruit of the Spirit ?  Are you rightly understanding sin, and growing sensitive to it in all forms? Are you killing sins in your life, and more and more killing your flesh so you can be submissive in love, and not push and die on hills that aren't important? Are you working in areas like conquering di...

I have some questions and I need some help. I gave birth 2 weeks ago today. The father isn’t in the picture and the entire pregnancy was traumatic (almost had an abortion too). The birth was also traumatic because I wasn’t allowed to leave hospital 2 weeks after, and now am in a foster placement for 12 weeks because of my mental health, which I don’t think I need as feels to be spiritual warfare. What I’m now concerned about is the baby; the biological father destroyed my life. I was so content before I met him, and the closest with God I’ve ever been, buy my life has been nothing but pain since. He completely took my off the path I was on. I guess this was partly my choice, but he made me believe he was something he totally wasn’t. Now I have his baby, im on my own, and im depressed more than ever before becsuse I just want to go home. I was just too naive at the time and thought God had sent him because I had been asking for a husband for so many years… I was wrong and should of list...

I need help without being judged. I got out of a 3 year relationship recently and it wasn't a very clean breakup a lot happened. But while being in the relationship I found out I was pregnant. And it's put me in a very bad place emotionally. I have to constantly put on a happy face and tell everyone I'm doing ok but In reality I'm not ok. And I don't know what to do. I see posts about him constantly being happy and having the best time. I think that it's not fair. I'm now stuck having to take care of a child and he gets to go to college. I just need help I don't know what to do I'm tired of constantly balling my eyes out at night. I've tried talking to someone, I've tried praying, meds. Nothing is helping. And with school coming up I don't know how much judgment from everyone I can take. I do have parents supportiveness but its all just overwhelming. 🥺😭 A: He is the father and has responsibility to the child. He needs to provide financi...

Q: I need advice. I am pregnant and want to have an abortion, but my boyfriend said that if I abort he will dump me. He is willing to take care of and provide for us. I am just afraid because I am not working and have uncertianty. I love him and I don't wanna lose him, but what should I do?? A: As a Christian we value all human life and cannot take a life God has created (or is creating). I hope this resource will help you. Note: crisis pregnancy centers who associate with Christian churches near you can help with baby expenses for up to 2 years. Contaxlct the nearby bible churches for those recommendations, and even your own. God provides and takes care of his children. Even if you sinned by fornicating, he wont abandon you.  I will caution you not to marry him if he is not saved. God commands us to not join with those who are in sin and as Satan's children. Bf can still provide and help you, but seek single living help from your church leaders for guidance and support so ...

Q: Recently I sinned by fornicating again. I did ask forgiveness from God for being unfaithful again. I thought God had forgiven me (& I’m no longer participating in such activities). I had just repented and made the effort to turn from evil, but...just found out I’m pregnant. It was one brief moment!! Really and truly I cannot believe I’ve went backwards like that and my life feels ruined. I don't understand. Did God truly forgive me? Should I stop praying, because I knew better but I didn’t do better. I said yes to my flesh and now it’s costing me. I’m willing to lose everything else, but to lose Jesus because of my sin - I really cannot bare the thought. A: You dont stop praying because things dont go your way. Prayer is to align you to God's will, (not for him to act as a genie who does what you want). You becoming pregnant wasn't a punishment from God; it was basic natural outcomes of happens when humans have sex. You know Scripture teaches sex was designed only ...