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Child Disobeys House Rule

 Not obeying house rules & plays on Device instead. My Son is 9. He keeps complaining about what food we offer at a meal and doesnt just be thankful or obey.  Last year he was focused on his tablet device and not doing the house rule. 20 minutes of Bible reading and then you can have 30 minutes on the tablet.  I work from home and am very busy and he uses that as a way to work around having to follow the rule. Because I cannot see him during that time. It is the only house rule. I have tried to take it away but once that time is up (we did it for 6 months) he goes right back to breaking the rule. What can I do?  A: The child should not be able to change the house rules. What you say should be what happens, and if not, there are consequences. Some will quote these verses right off in their advice: Obey  ”He who holds back his rod hates his son, But he who loves him disciplines him diligently.“ ‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭13‬:‭24‬ ‭ ”Do not withhold discipline from the chil...

Honoring Parents

Q: I am having some struggles around honoring &/or obeying my parents and need advice. A: Here are some helps on this topic. *Open links in a new tab to return to this page. Honoring Father and Mother  Honoring parents at every age and stage Obeying Parents  Honoring an abusive parent  Abounding in forgiveness Right Mindset as Believers Jesus pointed out wrong beliefs and behavior towards caring for parents @32:38 (speaking to adult children) Related:  Dealing with mother in law issues   Cutting people out of our lives Resources: Resources for Growing Believers