CounselingChristians

Have no bf, not in a relationship, am 28 I am getting concerned I wont find a spouse.  Advice? A: The Bible says and make my petitions known to the Lord. In his perfect timing, he answers. -Philippians 4:6-7 He might want you to grow more in the faith, mature in the knowledge of Scripture until he leads you to the right godly Christian fir a husband. Can I ask if you are missing opportunities? What are you doing to be around Christians to look for one? ...such as are you regularly in young adults Sunday School, singles group at Church, going to singles groups & events at associate churches, getting recommendations from the decons, going to volunteering at solid biblical ministries. Did you go to a solid Christian college? Go to alumni functions, or go to Christian groups from there [current and alumni].  What about attending a reputable Christian conference, a Christian singles conference, working or voluntering at a church mens conference or seminary event(s) somewhere...

Dating a non practicing Catholic. I have shared the gospel with her, but also wanting to do a devotional that might help communicate the gospel as well. Something that is Gospel centered and would through the daily devotional present Christ and the Gospel in various ways.  Sure. Here are some ideas... Option 1 - Gospel like devotional Maybe a bit of this every day with Bibles open? https://www.amazon.com/What-Gospel-9Marks-Greg-Gilbert/dp/1433515008/ref=nodl_?dplnkId=f3013726-fc64-44f7-85dc-caa91eba0ce5 * Disclaimer. 9Marks went woke in 2016 so avoid them in general. I can also recommend one of 4 or 5 devotionals at livingwaters.com store. They always have a gospel central focus in their material. 😀🌟 Option 2 - A study instead A verse by verse reading of John or Ephesians is a great way to share the Gospel in a Catholic framework. They've never understood the concepts of born again and salvation by grace through faith. And John’s gospel is a great book for a non believer t...

Struggling w Walk Not really sure what to do or think, but I'm feeling confused, frustrated, and scared.      I've been a "Christian" it seems my whole life. I grew up in a Christian home and I've always believed in God, been baptized multiple times, but I haven't always lived as a true Christian should or been truly saved. But, about, 4 or 5 years ago I began my journey to truly become a woman of God and take my relationship with Him seriously. I just feel like it never has truly "clicked" though. I've tried to read my Bible more, pray more, go to church regularly, gave up secular music, listen to Christian podcasts, etc.     But I've been very inconsistent the whole time. What I mean by that is I will pray, read the Word, be obedient, etc. for some days, weeks, or even a month or two. But it ALWAYS seems to come to an end. Then I randomly stop and I'll go days, weeks, months without doing any of it or barely doing it. And then a day c...

Q:  I have a friend of 6 years that I "feel" compatible with but he is not saved. I am so torn by wanting to love and be involved with him, but I WANT Jesus MORE. I have resolved to not be alone with him in a room, like ever, and I will not compromise my promise for waiting for marriage. There have been other male suitors that are of the faith, but I am not as "meshed" with them or interested in them... and it is difficult to tear away from this man to pursue a godly one.  In all honesty I do NOT think I am ready for marriage or a relationship but the passion and interest is there, and I cannot make it go away.  I know Jesus says to cut off, but like I said it is so difficult to tear away from him. I find myself wanting to annoy him just to make him mad to break it off with me, but he doesn't budge. I NEED HELP. A: We should never put ourselves in this situation to begin with. The unequally yoked command applies to friendships too. And... Women cannot be friends...

While our body is the Temple of the Holy Spirit and we know God creates us, we also know He has plans for us how he made us, but also know we are in a sin stained world where there are deformities and disabilities. God does have a plan for all of that in our lives, through to our family's lives, with our friends and those we meet (if we are one of the ones dealing with that issue). We also know that some people cannot get past looks. So if there is a big deformity or something that would give you some relief from judgmental people who only look at the outside then it might be okay. There is Christian liberty and medical assistance today, so it might allow you to be a bit more bold to share the gospel with people and feel like you both will be a bit more comfortable/open if you do a little bit. Soak the idea in prayer, get counsel from your parents, closes godly friends and a bit of counsel from your Pastor AND biblical counseling  before you proceed.  The biggest concerns ar...

How to get back on track... The truth is many don't know whete to start or what to do to conquer their sins. Repent: take responsibility for your sin, confess it to God-say what He says about your sin, look unto God and His word for calibration. Practice calibration in prayer: prayer can often be shallow in these moments and feel as though they do not go passed the ceiling. It’s guilt and shame.  Look into Gods Word, the psalms, to push through the guilt and shame. Guilt and shame will eventually wear off in the coming day or days, but only one determines the readiness of your heart and mind to make the right decision when temptations arise once more. Set your mind the way the psalmists set their mind. Eat, workout with a sermon, eat and sleep: Honor God with your body. Glorify Him by doing healthy things with your body. Plug your ears with a sermon, godly music and godly things while you build a discipline that feeds your body and soul. Find rest in fellowship: you are not alone. ...

It's wonderful to hear that you have a desire to live according to biblical principles. The book of Proverbs, particularly chapter 31, provides a beautiful depiction of a woman of noble character. This passage describes a woman who is trustworthy, hardworking, compassionate, and wise. She cares for her family, shows kindness to others, and fears the Lord. You can start by studying and meditating on the qualities of the Proverbs 31 woman. This passage can serve as a guide for your own character and actions. Additionally, seeking wisdom and guidance through prayer and actively growing in your relationship with God can help you embody the virtues outlined in Proverbs 31. Remember, becoming a woman of noble character is a journey, and it's okay to have moments of growth and learning along the way. Trust in the Lord to guide you as you seek to reflect His love and grace through your femininity and dignity. Here are great resources to help you begin this journey. 1. Prov 31 woman...