I am older and still have no spouse. Where to find single Christian men? 🙎‍♀️👫

Have no bf, not in a relationship, am 28 I am getting concerned I wont find a spouse.  Advice?


A: The Bible says and make my petitions known to the Lord. In his perfect timing, he answers. -Philippians 4:6-7

He might want you to grow more in the faith, mature in the knowledge of Scripture until he leads you to the right godly Christian fir a husband.

Can I ask if you are missing opportunities? What are you doing to be around Christians to look for one? ...such as are you regularly in young adults Sunday School, singles group at Church, going to singles groups & events at associate churches, getting recommendations from the decons, going to volunteering at solid biblical ministries.

Did you go to a solid Christian college? Go to alumni functions, or go to Christian groups from there [current and alumni]. 

What about attending a reputable Christian conference, a Christian singles conference, working or voluntering at a church mens conference or seminary event(s) somewhere. Once there chat with the people around you. The folk there will try to hook you up w folk they know to start a courtship [to see if you should marry]. 

*You can also walk around and try to air drop a flier there to see if any mature godly single men are looking to court a single growing believing woman. Then vet them through their church. 

Let folk there help you vet any decent guy there as a godly true Christian in his normal daily walk, before you really get to know him. 

You need to be out there and in the right places; Christian spaces.

Keep doing all the above and even if you are 45 when you marry... it is God's timing for the best husband for you. Do not cut corners or act desperate. Follow the Lord and be blessed. 😊

P.S. Meet and form solid Christian sister friendships among the brethren along the way. 


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