Gay friend is now interested in me

Q: a girl at my public school has been with all the gay girls in the school. She dated one of my friends, and the gay girl she is also my friend.

I currently like one of her best friends (it’s a guy). She was texting me earlier and said it sucks that likes a straight person and said it is me. 

I don’t know how to approach this situation. What should I do? 

A: 
So you have a few friends who are gay and there's a guy friend of hers, who might be bi or pansexual that you are interested in... 🤔

I am wondering why you are friends with people who are not Christian. That is a big red flag and you are going to need to start removing yourself from those friendship circles, esp to ones who are in the lgbt lifestyles.

The depraved always seek to do all the depraved they can. It is one reason we are not to be friends with those unsaved... they try to lead us into rebellion towards God and into all sorts of sins. Children of the devil have no interest in righteousness. 

If you want to try to reach her for Christ and have a real talk with her about why as a Christian you wont have anything to do with that lifestyle and if shes open to hearing why it is wrong... you can discuss it. I would recommend you thoroughly go through all this info and *then* you can try to reach her when it is appropriate to have that greater convo because you have examined it well enough to give a defense for the Christian view. 

Until then just tell her that "because of your Christian faith, sexual things are reserved for marriage and only with your husband. And our relationship is platonic, so it will never be sexual." And leave it at that, Whether you say it in person or by text. 

You can still reach people with the Gospel and answer questions without being their friends. There is a false teaching out there that claims we should befriend sinners. That is not true. We are to be kind to people, but we are not befriend the Satan's children. We are to be with those in the family of God and equally yoked to and fellowship with Christians. Even the Apostles taught this and Jesus never became friends of sinners, he ministered around them to bring truth and the gospel. He called people to repent. 

Also, we are not to date nor marry those who are not Christian; godly living righteously. At this point... you need to get your life a bit more sorted out; do a cleanse & reset. 

I hope this helps...

1. Understanding sexual perversion and the lgbt+ identity issue 

2. Understanding why the company we keep matters

3. Understanding the Command to not be Unequally Yoked to unbelievers


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