bf left me but we have kids 🥺

Q: Things went wrong w bf & he left me. We have kids. I am distraught. [Redacted info].

A: God is in the business of restoration. Both in salvation and in relationships. And that's great news! 😀

Of course if your bf isnt saved then that is a pressing issue, since tomorrow is never guaranteed.

But, handle this current situation as godly and graciously as you can. If there is error in your behavior then do go to him after he cooled off and ask forgiveness, (and correct yourself in godliness).

If he doesnt want you in his life anymore, you still need to be descent in interactions for the kids. Realize, if he isnt saved then that was unequally yoked [living in rebellion to God & he wont bless thus]. God may have allowed this to sever that kind of relationship with him, so you do not go further into sin [since we cannot be with/marry a unbeliever]. This could be a grace, so let God's will be done  (and in your life too).

Pray for his salvation, but if it doesnt hapoen...just raise the kids well in the Lord. 🫂💜, and live for the Lord. It is our purpose in life.

God bless


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