CounselingChristians

Q: I am a girl. Is it wrong to like another girl (if you arent gay)? A: Depends on what you are actually meaning. I could see an attractive or pretty girl and think wow she is pretty. But same sex sexual thoughts... no. That is sin. Regardless of the nonsense being taught online and by false preachers any sexual thoughts towards same sex, or opposite sex is sin.(1) We can noticibly see someone is pretty but that doesnt mean we have thoughts towards sin. Jesus was clear that our thoughts are seen by God and that thinking about something wrongly is sin. Remember he revealed this when teaching about Lust being adultery.  Many things Jesus revealed about sin is to point us to God; His character and nature are the standard we are measured by so all things morality related need to be held up to examine based on that. If we look at a bright white and a sheep white... the sheep looks horribly yellow or dirty brown and not white at all.  When we realize it is not something God would do...

Q: a girl at my public school has been with all the gay girls in the school. She dated one of my friends, and the gay girl she is also my friend. I currently like one of her best friends (it’s a guy). She was texting me earlier and said it sucks that likes a straight person and said it is me.  I don’t know how to approach this situation. What should I do?  A:  So you have a few friends who are gay and there's a guy friend of hers, who might be bi or pansexual that you are interested in... 🤔 I am wondering why you are friends with people who are not Christian. That is a big red flag and you are going to need to start removing yourself from those friendship circles, esp to ones who are in the lgbt lifestyles. The depraved always seek to do all the depraved they can. It is one reason we are not to be friends with those unsaved... they try to lead us into rebellion towards God and into all sorts of sins. Children of the devil have no interest in righteousness.  If y...