CounselingChristians

Cut off/toxic family Q: I’ve hit breaking point and it is time to cut off my toxic family members. Endless amounts of abuse, nastiness, pain over the years and I can no longer tolerate it.  How can I stand firm in this? Where can I go to in the Bible to help me with this. A: It appears you need more counsel on this. It might be that your new to Christianity or not maturing in the Faith. This can help... Today 1 in 4 are going no contact with family. This estrangement issue is problematic if the person wanting to exit... professes to be Christian.  We as Christians are not called to cut people off or out so we can live in some "happiness bubble". Our best life isnt here on this fallen temporary planet, nor is our life to revolve around ourself, but Christ. We born again ones are called to minister to the lost, the hurting and unsaved. We are ministers of the Gospel, a light in our family, and Ambassadors of Christ. God placed us in this family for the work he has planned fi...

Q: Please pray for my marriage. I'm growing weary. When he's happy: sweet, super loving, caring, supportive, overly complimentary, spoils me, calls me the best mom/wide, thanks me for everything i do at home, basically the ideal husband. When he's mad: rude, mean, looks at me like he hates me, calls me names, points out all my issues/flaws, uses things I have shared with him against me including traumas, threatens to leave/divorce, yells at me and doesn't care who hears or if the kids are sleeping, says he doesn't care, says being a mom is not hard work and it's not his fault I don't know how to relax or I don't rest as a sahm. He says I should stick through it because i have 3 kids now and my life will go down hill and no one will want me if i divorce him, i wont find anyone like him. He gaslights me, calls me crazy, does things that bother me to upset me since he's mad, won't sleep in the bed with me, won't listen, won't understand. And...