CounselingChristians

I have some questions and I need some help. I gave birth 2 weeks ago today. The father isn’t in the picture and the entire pregnancy was traumatic (almost had an abortion too). The birth was also traumatic because I wasn’t allowed to leave hospital 2 weeks after, and now am in a foster placement for 12 weeks because of my mental health, which I don’t think I need as feels to be spiritual warfare. What I’m now concerned about is the baby; the biological father destroyed my life. I was so content before I met him, and the closest with God I’ve ever been, buy my life has been nothing but pain since. He completely took my off the path I was on. I guess this was partly my choice, but he made me believe he was something he totally wasn’t. Now I have his baby, im on my own, and im depressed more than ever before becsuse I just want to go home. I was just too naive at the time and thought God had sent him because I had been asking for a husband for so many years… I was wrong and should of list...

Have no bf, not in a relationship, am 28 I am getting concerned I wont find a spouse.  Advice? A: The Bible says and make my petitions known to the Lord. In his perfect timing, he answers. -Philippians 4:6-7 He might want you to grow more in the faith, mature in the knowledge of Scripture until he leads you to the right godly Christian fir a husband. Can I ask if you are missing opportunities? What are you doing to be around Christians to look for one? ...such as are you regularly in young adults Sunday School, singles group at Church, going to singles groups & events at associate churches, getting recommendations from the decons, going to volunteering at solid biblical ministries. Did you go to a solid Christian college? Go to alumni functions, or go to Christian groups from there [current and alumni].  What about attending a reputable Christian conference, a Christian singles conference, working or voluntering at a church mens conference or seminary event(s) somewhere...