Pre divorce, should I toss the cross gift he have me?
Q: This probably sounds dumb, but - My husband wants a divorce, I don't. He had bought me a cross necklace ( real jewelry ) and I wear it 24/7. It hurts to look at it at times and a part of me wants to rip it off my neck out of hurt and anger. But because it has the cross on it, I don't want to toss it out of guilt because of the symbol of the cross. Is it wrong of me to get rid of the necklace? Am I just being paranoid you think ? A: The necklace was given out of love snd reminds you of your Savior who perfectly loved and loves you. Keep it. Is he professing Christ? Does he go to church? Does he have a more neutral or positive vs negative mindset about God? Is he open to counseling? I would keep the cross. Tbh you could use it as a springboard for various convos w him. *"Honey, you know Jesus went to extremes lengths to show his love for us, while we were sinners... we should think like God. Let's get counseling and try to save this marriage." * "Ho...