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Q: Me and husband decided to separate but the whole time apart he wanted to come back... but I were so hurt by what caused the separation, that I denied him all access to me. 6 months later I to missed him, and want him to come back.  Then he asks to come back again, but I didn't made it clear that I want him to come back. Around that time 💔 he told me that it’s a possibility that he has a baby on the way. Meaning he broke the marriage covenant, committed adultery, didn't even use protection, and now there's probably a child from that sexual sin.  How would you feel or what would you do? A: Sinners sin. That's not a usually biblical accepted reason to kick them out and seperate. Plenty of marriages are unequally yoked. And, you didnt say why you seperated, which plays a key in giving counsel.  We arent to live our lives focused on uncontrolled emotions, but be soberminded, and to have our minds and hearts saturated by the Word, so we can be led on the Holy path. To get...

Proverbs 14:1-3 The wise woman builds her house, But the foolish pulls it down with her hands. Returning to your Husband: Key Bible Principles & Verses Marriage is a covenant to be honored • Malachi 2:14–16 – God hates divorce; He calls spouses to faithfulness. • Matthew 19:4–6 – “What God has joined together, let no one separate.” • Wives are called to love & submit to their husbands (within God’s love and headship) • Ephesians 5:22–24 – Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord. • Colossians 3:18 – Wives, submit to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord. • Husbands are called to love sacrificially • Ephesians 5:25–28 – Husbands, love your wives as Christ loved the church, giving Himself for her. • 1 Peter 3:7 – Husbands are to honor and live with their wives understandingly. • Unsaved spouses cant do that since theyre not born again, but can try to be a somewhat morally decent spouse.  • Forgiveness and reconciliation • 1 Corinthians 7:10–11 – “A wife must not sepa...