Husband struggling with sexual thoughts at church & porn/sexual sins
Q: Need godly counsel My husband is having issues with a girl in our church he gets horrible sexual thoughts about her. All day yesterday he kept thinking about her and I’m trying to be okay about it cause he tells me he doesn’t want to be this way and think these things and it’s better he’s telling me than hiding it but it hurts. He does have a porn addiction and possibly a sex addiction; he’s battled for years trying to change... but it’s hard for him it’s really got him bound. He has a very high drive and mines low so that doesn’t help. He’s talked about leaving our church because of this, (but I love our church family and would hate to leave). Also he stopped going for a month saying he was going to find another church but never did. He says he doesn’t understand it cause he's not drawn to her looks, shes plain/average. I’ve always struggled with a low drive I think from childhood because I was molested. It can be hard cause he has some nasty kinks he wants to ta...