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Affair w coworker

Q: So within the last couple weeks I found out my husband had a month long affair with his co-worker. Before finding out, I had mention numerous times that I felt like they were building an emotional attachment to one another but my words kept getting brushed off by him.  Me and him were having issues for months beforehand and I was less than encouraging due to my own lack of healing. Did I push him to a point of feeling like someone else wanted him? After finding out, we went to marriage counseling the next day, and I stayed for a week.  Now I’m at my moms 4 hours away with our daughters. I want to work it out and he kind of does too, but I think he mostly wants to not miss out on the relationship with our daughters. He’s kind of begging me to come back at this point.  He works in law enforcement and owes the department a year of commitment so he can’t quit his job and still has to work with the woman he had an affair with. His chief handled the situation professionally...