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Dating towards marriage but sex sin past caused problems

Q: My current boyfriend & I have been dating for 7 months now, but we’re having a really big issue at the moment. I’m just in need of some godly advice. For reference, I’m a 20-year-old female, and my boyfriend is 27. And we are both strong christians. We went out on our first date and afterward came back to my house to talk and get to know each other better. From the beginning, I knew I was dating to marry, and I was very open with him about my past. [I told him about all my previous relationships — including my longest one, which was a homosexual relationship — and a few situationships I had in college with guys.]. I felt extremely ashamed of my past, but I wanted him to know everything up front so he could decide if he wanted to move forward with me. That same night, I asked him about a rumor I had heard a while ago regarding a relationship he supposedly had with another girl. He denied it, saying they were nothing more than coworkers and that she was just telling people they we...