Should I date or pursue this person? 👥️
Q: I’ve been interested in a guy for 6 months, and I am uncertain about him. We dated a but already. Part of me likes him, part of me says “you can do better”. Although he appears truly invested, I’ve been praying to God to give me clarity if this relationship is something to pursue....or if I am making the wrong choice. I have have a really hard time making decisions in various areas in my life and I need help to decide on what partner is the best fit for God’s plans for my life. Is there more things I should do to have this clarity? I don’t want waste my time, or his time, even if he appears as a great guy. A: Talk to your parents, 3 trusted believers, meet his pastor and youth leader or men's group leader, and get the pastors counsel after they all meet to vett him, and updste you on him. [if needed meet his friends, siblings too], then talk to his parents to learn more about him ....your goal is to probe to find out if he is really living a holy life. If he is immature, ...