CounselingChristians

Q: My boyfriend & I broke up. We were together a year, (I know not long but I thought he was the one). We broke up 2 days ago and I am struggling… this isn’t my first heartbreak but this is my first one in a really long time (as I stayed single for 5 years before getting back into a relationship because I did not want to go through this and well here I am).  I can use prayers and advice to make this easier for me. I cannot stop thinking about him, & want to reach out. But I know that’s not the right thing to do (my flesh is testing me).  Also, I have kids from a previous relationship and they adored him, so not only am I heartbroken, but once they find out, theyll be hurt. How to move on? A: This can help you all move forward. Regarding the break up *Commenter noted it also helped for a friendship break up, so if theyre old enough, show this to them to help them too. It is a break away for them too, as theres now no contact anymore with him, for them too.  As to y...

Q: I’m 21 yrs old i’m in college etc.  After dating 4 yes, I went through a breakup about 5 months ago. Since the breakup I have felt so numb. I’ve been angry or in a horrible mood everyday. All i want to do is rot in bed. I get upset at every little thing. I hate being this person. I used to be so bubbly and always was down to do something. Can you recommend me to anything? Maybe a Hobby? A good word I can read? Some advice?  Thank you  A: Thank God that it didnt work out, as He has a right & godly man for you. It is in His timing, so wait and trust Him 🩷✝️. These can help you move forward Regarding the break up Biblical hope for a break up Realign to God's Word, a godly mindset and holy living. Surrounding yourself with believers at Church, and move onwards so you are rightly serving and living for God.    Conquering discontentment and other sins Here's resources related to dating , and pursuing a godly guy.  A suggestion beyond reading Scripture ...

Q: I broke up with my boyfriend tonight. I am so confused. I have been with my boyfriend for 9 months. He is a Godly man, loves me so well, and respects my boundaries 100%. Since we started dating, he has cut out vaping and drinking, and we have abstained from anything sexual beyond a quick kiss. We go to church together every week and teach Sunday school together. I’m confused because I have extreme anxiety that he isn’t the one. Like it’s debilitating to where I wake up and go to sleep obsessing over it. I don’t miss him when we are apart, but I don’t know if it is due to our relationship or due to my insanely busy schedule where I am constantly running on empty and just want to be home.  He did pray that God remove me from his life if I wasn’t the one, and I have prayed that too. Is this a sign that we just aren’t meant for each other? I am so so sad that we broke up and so is he. It’s like we don’t want it to end but feel like it could be the right choice. But we are both so un...