CounselingChristians

Cut off/toxic family Q: I’ve hit breaking point and it is time to cut off my toxic family members. Endless amounts of abuse, nastiness, pain over the years and I can no longer tolerate it.  How can I stand firm in this? Where can I go to in the Bible to help me with this. A: It appears you need more counsel on this. It might be that your new to Christianity or not maturing in the Faith. This can help... Today 1 in 4 are going no contact with family. This estrangement issue is problematic if the person wanting to exit... professes to be Christian.  We as Christians are not called to cut people off or out so we can live in some "happiness bubble". Our best life isnt here on this fallen temporary planet, nor is our life to revolve around ourself, but Christ. We born again ones are called to minister to the lost, the hurting and unsaved. We are ministers of the Gospel, a light in our family, and Ambassadors of Christ. God placed us in this family for the work he has planned fi...

Q: I have a professing Christian friend who has a weakness for men. She shared with me that she recently fornicated with a good male friend of hers more than once and she wants to do it again but she knows it’s not right. She knows she should end the affair with the guy but because they have great chemistry within their friendship, enjoying what they’re doing and for being friends for so long it’s hard for her to. She said they never dated or intended to. They both find each other physically attractive but never had thoughts of wanting to pursue more than a friendship with one another. The first time it happened one night when they were together they said they just got “caught up in the moment” and said that it was never planned on either ends for them to have sex that night. She knows what she’s doing is wrong so she purposely shys away from prayer and reading her Bible because she knows it’s possible than God can change her mind but she doesn’t want to do so as of yet. Bottom line is...