CounselingChristians

Q: Need suggestions regards of myself and my own healing as I’m soon to be 28 and I have zero friends, no job and am disappointed in life.  I have friends from high school or middle school and I don’t keep in contact as they started their own lives or I’m always put on the back burner or they just moved away and had their own lives. It’s been 10+ years since I had a female (same sex) friend seems like after I got a relationship the timing wasn’t good or he would disapprove of. Or they wouldn’t stick and end up treating me horrible such as A. Being my friend and stealing B. Being a friend and trying to get with my partner. Or C both. Either way I haven’t had the best situation with getting or having friends within my adult years!  It’s been very rough. I feel such regret and pain even hate and jealousy which I know isn’t what a person should be. I just don’t know how to to deal with I had a kid after a great job and lost it (was fired for maternity leave) and I felt that was ...

Q: I lashed out on my parents ( Mom and Stepdad ) and have no regrets. They are ruining family traditions this holiday season and keep hurting me emotionally. They want to make a 8 hour round trip on Christmas to see some family for 2 maybe 3-4 hours and I pretty much lashed out on them saying how its not even good for holiday or Christmas to spend the whole day in a car, and not even be abel to celebrate the true meaning behind Christmas. Yes I want to see my grandparents and older siblings (whom are adults) but feels useless to spend the whole day in a car.  Am I in the wrong much or is my point valid? ( not to mention im a child of divorced parents who still fight over holiday visitation and just make me not wanna celebrate anything anymore ).  A: Yes you were wrong. First step is to try to tell them both how you feel. Esp about the in-fighting. Tell them they need to create a set holiday plan so it is the same every year and they need to ensure their side of the family ne...