Pregnant - want to abort - bf offer provide

Q: I need advice. I am pregnant and want to have an abortion, but my boyfriend said that if I abort he will dump me. He is willing to take care of and provide for us.

I am just afraid because I am not working and have uncertianty. I love him and I don't wanna lose him, but what should I do??


A: As a Christian we value all human life and cannot take a life God has created (or is creating).

I hope this resource will help you. Note: crisis pregnancy centers who associate with Christian churches near you can help with baby expenses for up to 2 years. Contaxlct the nearby bible churches for those recommendations, and even your own.

God provides and takes care of his children. Even if you sinned by fornicating, he wont abandon you. 

I will caution you not to marry him if he is not saved. God commands us to not join with those who are in sin and as Satan's children. Bf can still provide and help you, but seek single living help from your church leaders for guidance and support so you walk the right path. He is still the Father.

Full discussion & considerations on abortion and pregnancy helps. ⭐

Faq Fornication led to pregnancy

How to lead your bf to Christ

Helps to find a place to live 

I pray you will use the time of your pregnancy to dive deep into Scripture [daily] 🙏and🙂 grasp what it teaches, because life will be busy after the baby is born. So now is the time to have that singular focus in the Bible. It will help lead and guide you in life. 

Also, save this weblink because it has parenting resources for you as you raise your child to know the Lord 😊.  

God bless

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