Dating/Engaged to Black Hebrew Israelite /Hebrew Roots
Dating & headed towards Marriage with a Black Hebrew Israelite.
My boyfriend (soon to be husband) is a black Hebrew Israelite. And I am a Christian he is great, but there are a few things that are just wrong in his views. He believes in having multiple wives, he believes that adultery is only when you sleep with a married woman but not when sleeping with your “wives”. So he goes out every Saturday after his bible teaching, and then goes around the streets to get girls numbers, and goes to bars to drink with his fellow church members to meet girls. I believe what he believes in is false doctrine.
We do go over the Bible often together. I’ve shown him every verse in the Bible about becoming one flesh and how one husband should have his own wife etc…. He believes because God allowed Solomon to have multiple wives (and yes I explained to him how that turned his heart away from God) but he goes against that verse to say how God gave a law to how to handle multiple wives which makes it “ok” in his eyes.
Also, Isnt it true, you can marry an unbeliever it’s in the Bible 1 Corinthians 7:12-16 To the rest I say (I, not the Lord) that if any brother has a wife who is an unbeliever, and she consents to live with him, he should not divorce her. If any woman has a husband who is an unbeliever, and he consents to live with her, she should not divorce him. For the unbelieving husband is made holy because of his wife, and the unbelieving wife is made holy because of her husband.”
When I bring up any Bible verse dealing with Paul he says he was only talking to the church and how it wasn’t a commands…. And to be completely honest yes I believe in monogamy and I know that was God design. But it is deeper issue than that as he was once a Christian and has embraced false teachings because he had questions about the Bible. I DO NOT want him to burn in Hell because others led him into false beliefs. If you can please pray that God will save his soul and turn his heart away from false teachings. That’s all I care about is his soul.
A: His first problem is that instead of getting those Bible questions answered at church, he left to pursue beliefs that followed with his sin preferences, and shows "he was never of us for he left us". All he had to do was meet and discuss his faq with his Pastor back then, but he didn't. The main reason people leave Church is desire for sexual sin. He was never saved. He simply grew up in the church or was lured in by slick marketing with a false gospel (of God is your genie, and will give you what you want) into a false church, to a place and belief that "allows" him to have sex with multiple people and "try to justify" his sin, &/ or he went to a black church with a very bad and biblically weak pastor. He definitely could seek out other pastors to get Bible answers, but instead chose to go His own way.
Jeremiah 17:9 says: The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked... and Judges 17:6 revealed "everyone did what was right in their own eyes". God further tells us all are sinners, and Genesis 6:5 revealed "Then the Lord saw that the wickedness of man was great in the earth, and that every intent of the thoughts of his heart was only evil continually." Unsaved people are trapped in their sin nature and can only sin. They cannot live in righteousness, do what's right, nor love you since Christ is not in them; they're not converted by God, do not have the Holy Spirit in them and thus do not have the Fruit of the Spirit to live righteously at all. They'll only always do what their selfish ways are and what they can get out of it. They don't care if you get hurt, they want things their way, not caring the fall out or consequences to you or heartbreak 247 365, all your life if you yoke to him unequally.
You cannot be a Christian and date or marry someone who’s beliefs are completely against Scripture. He is in a works based, legalistic and racist religion that masqurades as Christian.
Why would you continue the relationship this far, let alone consider marriage??!! Horrified and so concerned for you.
The problem to start with is that you chased after him, or pursued or allowed him to be a suitor (when he's not even at a basic level to even qualified as one). You got emotionally connected to him instead of vetting him and getting godly advice and counsel about the guy & his beliefs from your shepherds at your church, incl your pastor. I have a feeling you have no solid Christians in your family or they'd firmly say NO to this guy and explain why. It makes no sense for a Christian woman to just run after some guy that the godly folk (who are to guide you in your Christian walk) have never examined and vetted, to give approval & blessing of.
Warning...You must flee him! He is in a CULT and you don't want him forcing or attempting to guide your spiritual life; he will pull you from true Christianity, into false... and drag you away from God & truth. We are not to be unequally yoked!! Marrying him will be a nightmare disaster daily for 80 years!
Please do not marry this man! He does not respect God, you, or the sanctity of marriage and you are setting yourself up for heartbreak. This isn't what God wants for you.
And, the verse you quoted, is totally taken it out of context! It's not saying that!!!
Its saying if you are married, [both were unbelievers]...and then at some point one of you got saved.... stay to be a light to lead him towards Christ by your godly living. God clearly commands us to not go into a marriage unequally yoked. So dont twist it to try to justify your unbiblical desire. If you claim to be a believer you CANNOT marry Him. God is very clear!
You need to grasp this very well: He is in a cult, thus not a Christian. He has a diff god, diff gospel, and very unbiblical beliefs. He is in idolatry.
Also... attempts at "guiding" him in biblucal truth or "saving him" is not your job. NO woman in a relationship ever has success at that flawed mindset. Its horrible wishful thinking, and never works. Let your Pastor or other godly men handle that. Redirect him to them
Also Adultery Is the English word. In Bible language it is "porneia", which includes all forms of sexual depravity & debauchery from sex with other people, to sex with animals, orgies, any sexual perversions (lgbt+ included), sexual thinking of others, or straight up adultery... which is what he's openly pursuing.
God has been clear, He created Adam and Eve for the blueprint; one union. A man leaves his family and marries his wife and the TWO become ONE. Its 1:1 only in the design.
And...Just because others sinned in the Bible, doesnt authorize multiple wives. *"Descriptive" & "prescriptive" are not the same thing. Ask your pastor to explain this clearly.
Anyone blatantly cheating on you now, or desires to do so, who even told you he won't be faithful in marriage....won't love you as Christ loves the Church; btw Jesus as the Bridegroom and the Church as the Bride... is TWO uniting as ONE, to be together forever, is the same example as 1:1. That guy you are with is trying to decieve you so he can sin sexually to his hearts content; to bring more women into his fantasy and marry many to sleep with multiple women, in addition to running around sexually. He will push you aside for his side pieces, and likely bring you an STD, even life altering Herpes or life ending disease like AIDS...and ruin your life. On top of 50 babies, all taking his finances from caring and providing for you. He doesn't care about you. Its outrageous you are even considering this man & Marriage... and you need godly professional counselor asap. Please contact these folk so they can go over this very well with you, and also help you have self respect, and think biblically, and bring you back to a right frame of mind.
Also...In seriousness, you need to understand the problem with the wrong thinking about your idea of "love". It's not at all what you think (as explained here).
Biblical Marriage is about sanctification, & it's a sacrificial relationship of servitude, putting others first, but only in love in Christ. If he's not actually saved (cult members arent), then he doesn't have Christ's love in him and can't love you in Christ.... then your entering into a counterfeit relationship with Satan's child. Light and darkness have no part together. This relationship cannot continue and God won't bless you if you do so.
If you truly are saved, you will obey God and drop that man... today, right now, and never look back.
Please please flee this man!
God wants you equally yoked and to someone who is worthy to be your husband; and take on all that that that responsibility encompasses, including faithfulness to you. And it can only be someone who is has been born again by God.
Leave that man in God's hands and go forward in your Christian walk. If he will be saved, God will bring people into his life to take care of that, and educate him.
Break off that relationship today.
[Do not chain yourself to Satan's child for life.]
God be with you as you choose Him and go the way of righteousness following Christ.
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For others reading this page:
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Hebrew Roots Movement
Another black cult to avoid & its members:
613 Laws with no Temple? No one can keep the Commandmrnts, cuz one sin breaks it. Rom 6:23. Its a basic truth of Christianity. Jews couldn't keep the Law either. And it's called the Law of sin and death. If you put yourself under it, you'll be condemned by it when Jesus judges sinners. Avoid legistic apostate false religions.
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