Broke up and can't move on, help. .

Q: I’m 21 yrs old i’m in college etc. 
After dating 4 yes, I went through a breakup about 5 months ago. Since the breakup I have felt so numb. I’ve been angry or in a horrible mood everyday. All i want to do is rot in bed. I get upset at every little thing. I hate being this person. I used to be so bubbly and always was down to do something. Can you recommend me to anything? Maybe a Hobby? A good word I can read? Some advice? 
Thank you 



A: Thank God that it didnt work out, as He has a right & godly man for you. It is in His timing, so wait and trust Him 🩷✝️.

These can help you move forward




Realign to God's Word, a godly mindset and holy living. Surrounding yourself with believers at Church, and move onwards so you are rightly serving and living for God. 

 Conquering discontentment and other sins

Here's resources related to dating, and pursuing a godly guy. 

A suggestion beyond reading Scripture and serving in your church is, get involved with the evangelism outreach team, to go out, share tracts and the Gospel. We are called to this commission by Jesus, and should be on mission. You can get equipped here and go. 

So when you have free time after your college work, have studied Scripture for the day, and still have free time, get equipped for the Gospel. It is a lifelong role. 

God bless

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