Unsaved husband wants to do microdosing of drugs to get close to "God"
Q: I'm unsure what to say to my husband. For a few years now he has always told me how he wants to try micro dosing with mushrooms. His reasoning is "I want to see God". I tell him how mushrooms and other forms of getting high just alter the brain and are huge risks to your mental health. Is there a way to safely micro dose? Is he opening up a can of worms to demonic things? For extra context he is VERY non religious. He very much does not agree with the Christian faith, while I myself am strong in the Faith
A: We see God in Christ and Scripture.
That's where he needs to go. We are to come to God by the way he told us to. Not our way & alt attempts. If hes not seeking the true God, he will in idolatry go where he wants to. That's what the unsaved do.
Even though Satan blinds the unsaved, and has them in chains to their sin nature, the Gospel truth can set him free, (unless he's a hellbound child of Satan).
Drug usage is what pagans did in attempts to get close to their god. It's not what Christians are to do. As a Christian wife I highly suggest you get ahead of this, saturated in prayer and counseling, before he goes that path and destroys your marriage.
I highly recommend commend having him talk with a "counselor" before proceeding . Find one for him (in advance) who can talk on the topic. Theyll address it from a biblical truth worldview and present the Gospel to him.
If he refuses & chooses to do drugs anyway... then be preparing for your marriage & life as you know it to be destroyed. Remember Job and others, that God is with you. Once he starts using drugs he will become an addict to other drugs. I pray you don't have kids as his destructive decisions will greatly affect them - all their life. He will become neglectful to you, to them, possibly abusive, and might have affairs as he goes the way of the world into deeper sins. This is what happens when marrying unequally yoked to a non believer; constant problems and no peace, and no unity in Christ.
If youre not a member of and active in a local Bible focused church, you need to do that today. You'll need the leader-shepherds there to help to guide and counsel you going forward, and the godly women in the womens group there praying for you. And you'll need to grow in the Faith as steadily and purposely as possible to weather this storm well. There's a big battle ahead. Get prepared now.
Here's resources to help prepare you, Get your mindset focused on God and trust Him thru to the end. You'll need to make job, money and other plans now...so when that time comes, or is near, youre prepared and can go your way in peace.
Preventing Divorce; do all you can
Helpful Unequally Yoked Resources for living godly before your husband
More books can be found here, to help you as a wife, and a woman following Christ.
Meet with a Biblical Counselor (yourself) this week for guidance, and for continued help as needed through this season and its coming storms.
God bless
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