Have younger kids and broke up with bf who the kids got attached to.
Q: My boyfriend & I broke up. We were together a year, (I know not long but I thought he was the one). We broke up 2 days ago and I am struggling… this isn’t my first heartbreak but this is my first one in a really long time (as I stayed single for 5 years before getting back into a relationship because I did not want to go through this and well here I am).
I can use prayers and advice to make this easier for me. I cannot stop thinking about him, & want to reach out. But I know that’s not the right thing to do (my flesh is testing me).
Also, I have kids from a previous relationship and they adored him, so not only am I heartbroken, but once they find out, theyll be hurt. How to move on?
A: This can help you all move forward.
*Commenter noted it also helped for a friendship break up, so if theyre old enough, show this to them to help them too. It is a break away for them too, as theres now no contact anymore with him, for them too.
As to your kids, explain that friendships and dating are not long term. They do end. Buy that you will be looking for a suitable man to marry who loves God and lives holy, as that is the right kind of spouse to have, and who can be a good influence & love on you kids.
Don't bring him up anymore. If they do, just say God wants us to move onwards and not dwell on nor have past regrets. End of convo. Theyll eventually forget him.
Block him on all socials and phone, delete from messenger apps too, so it is truly a clean break and you cant contact anymore. Delete emails and email address too.
More help as youre moving onwards
God bless
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