Handling Dr office visits with your children
Q: The doctor is trying to have me leave the room for a few minutes so he can have a private convo with my daughter. As a Christian parent I dint want to be pushed out of the room so the doctor can put ideas into my child's mind, usurping our teaching and role as parent. What can we do??
A: Dr's are sketchy, and have to follow continually new laws, and things they are told to ask, but also many want to pry into your family life! And try to Transition your confused puberty and prepubescent kids into the Trans/LGBT crap. And try to say or get kids to share sexual things with the doctors. Dentists can be sexual predators too, so never leave your kid alone with dentists either. Stay in the room.
For Kids under 18:
Have the child tell the Dr s/he "want your mom to stay in the room with you on Dr visits, till your 19," and to tell him to "put that in the record notes, so it doesn't need to be asked again".
Then mom puts in her notes:
The hospital
The Dr
The date
So it can be referenced till kid is 19.
If other hospitals, Drs or dentists ask the same, have the child repeat the same thing. In fact, you can have him/her write it out, sign and date it "as of x date and remains valid until I turn 19", and hand it to the receptionist for an attachment to the electronic records. *And take the original home! For your files mom. So you always have it. And So your child can't try to wiggle out of it either in rebellion to obeying parents, that they're your guardian until adulthood, and your to be involved in every area of their lives, and in teaching, guiding & protecting them from decievers and those of the world who try to harm your child mentally, medically or both (as things are becoming more evil).
*If you want, consult a legal wordsmith who can help you make this ironclad and irrevocable [so the child can't change their mind while at dr office to exclude you or superseded the written document. They might try by teen years. Get it locked in right now.
Once that's on file, it can be referenced when you sign your child in. Let him/her sit in the reception seat while you go sign them in. Quietly say: "I'll be accompanying my child in the room during the visit, and won't be leaving the room. My child requested I remain per details in his medical record. Please remind the dr. Also, our spiritual advisor will also be accompanying us as of today. Here's my sons written note for that- to be scanned & attached to his file, b4 we leave today. Pls add it to his file b4 we go in to see the Dr. We'll take the original with us".
In future visits, after visit 2, you won't need to say that anymore cuz theyll "know you". And dont care that they do. You're protecting your kids.
When you as adult go into a Dr's office, (and i recommend you do this with your children too once they turn 19) is have a legal person with you in any office/dr visits. Preferably call them a Spiritual consultant. They help you not share or say anything that could be written in your medical records [as it's a legal document, not a medical record for your benefit & help]. Consult [in person] with the Christian lawyer you have on retainer, about what you want to say to the Dr and during the visit (before you go into the appointment). They can help you not say certian things, and speak on your behalf about certian things, but also help you prepare what to say, bullet points, pain points, and keep you from saying anything else. Dont be chummy w the Dr's. Dont act excited or emotional. Use self control, and get a matter dealt with.
If you appear someone with depression or anxiety they'll try to put you on medication you do not need. You need Christ, spiritual maturity, and for your spiritual consultant to say "that is a matter she's receiving Christian counseling for, and doesn't need medical intervention fir at this time". If Scientology cult can have a religious monitor follow them everywhere, like glue, abd no opt out - if medical/dental places have to deal with them, then Christians can have spiritual guides with them too.
It def can help protect you.
As to the kids, I've seen videos from UK where the Dr is threatening calling CPS because the mom rejected the child needing anxiety medication. He said he needs it and she disagreed. He went from it's best if he uses meds to making threats to call CPS if she doesn't cave to that drug pusher. They're after $, and see things from a worldly view, not a biblical Christian worldview.
So - you make it a spiritual matter (which it is), so they can't violate your religious rights & rights to refuse drugs they're pushing. Cuz it's not medically necessary. And if you have to go further on the matter, contact a professional Biblical Counselor to meet, discuss the issue, and get their opinion & guidance. Cuz they can recommend medical assistance if it's absolutely necessary. But for Christians, Anxiety and Depression are sin issues; not trusting God. So it doesn't need medication, it needs discipleship and wuth guidance on how to live life as a believer.
For the UK mother I would say "OK well take the prescription, if you can write it out for us." Then DONT fill the prescription. Find a new Grneral Physicial, even change hospitals. Get the child into biblical counseling, get their opinion and game plan to deal with the anxiety sin, and - NEVER bring it up at any Dr visit again.
If somehow all the records are transfered or accessible nationwide (UK) and they see it, and ask, you can say he's in Christian therapy so it is being taken care of according to our biblical worldview. The spiritual advisor has deemed it not necessary for him to be medication, and he's getting good teaching & guidance with them on how to handle problems in life.
If you have a Christian lawyer with you, that spiritual consultant can address that issue, to say that, for you.
And if any issues arise, that lawyer can deal with it there to nip that bud, so it doesn't go any further [no escalation, no cps, no cops, no whatever]. Plus, the lawyer will have his notes from the visit [and the pre & post private invoice with you] in his records should any baloney snake raise its head to try to cause your family stress and legal troubles.
Just don't chance it, and always have that Christian lawyer (spiritually consultant) with you at Dr and Dental visits; for you &/or your kids. And ensure they make this a practice in their life- even if you have to pay for it (until they make enough money and have the budget to do so).
And if Dr's start asking sexual questions to the child under 19, or LGBT Qs, that Christian lawyer can immediately nip that in the bud too. Right then and there. He can say "That is a family & faith matter that has no place in today's office visit". And he will say the same thing in future visits. And if there's push back, then move your family/kids to a different physician. Tbvh you shouldn't have your kids go to the same general Dr. So you can move them around, to avoid this very intrusive modern thing. The Govt and Dr's do not need to know your kids sexual stuff, and you teach that properly at home so they remain virgins until married, pursuing holy living. Not hard since it's popular to be Asexual today. Which is good. It can be taught at home when discussing sex from age 9 onwards, in a Christian way, by both parents. Using solid Christian material to teach and guide on it properly.
Resources
Find a Christian Lawyer to retain, who can be with you in those situations.
Find a Biblical Counselor, and understand why we don't put faith nor trust into worldly ways
If you dont have a home church you can find a bible based Church here
Footnotes
(1) I don't like the word therapy cuz its a worldly word. But for use around Dr's it's best to use it. First you it means parental teaching & pastoral counseling, but extends to professional counseling as well.
God has given Parents a important job, its a life long ministry, but foundationally important in their youth: “Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.” Proverbs 22:6
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God bless!
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